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Five (5) Ways To Deal With The Temptation To Cheat
People with partners get wooed, seduced and tempted all the time
Avoiding the temptation to cheat is an exercise every couple should be dedicated to. Understandably, the decision to stay faithful to your partner, or your marriage vows will take a lot of energy, strong will, and restraint, but hey, you chose this, didn’t you?
The least that is expected of you is to have the balls [and I’m not referring to only men here] to stay true to that person you decided to enter into a relationship with.
But as we have already said here, being in a relationship or being married will not automatically take away your attraction to other people, neither does it mean interested people will stop chasing after you for sex and other extramarital affairs.
1. Be determined
Whatever will happen will first happen in your mind, so you need to decide to never entertain the thought of ever cheating on your spouse.
The thought will cross your mind, but you can’t allow it to have a firm grip in there.
You should choose to hold your end of the bargain, regardless of what your spouse does or does not do.